The Ultimate Guide On How To Plan A Road Trip On A Budget

If you’re reading this, then you want to learn how to successfully plan a road trip. How do you start? Where should you go? What do you need to know? How should you pack? How much will it all cost? Is it even possible or are road trips just a dream? Look no further! After successfully planning and going on a 16-day road trip along the east coast with my best friend in just TWO DAYS (yes, we came up with the idea at the beach one day then planned it all within 48 hours!), I wanted to create this post on how to plan a road trip in the cheapest way possible without compromising on the quality of hotels, gas, food, and your overall experience.  [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vwDyHehNSU&list=PLKIFdJAmFJqhNAKu0vFTkrHtSB_juJhFC[/embed] Want to discover the best websites to book cheap hotels, suitcase and car packing tips, how to find coupons and discounts, helpful apps to use while on the road, and ways to spend less money on food, gas, and fun things to do?  

Here’s my ultimate guide on how to plan a road trip on a budget:

 First things first, where are you going? How To Plan Your Road Trip Destinations & Pit Stops l hawk + pearl Depending on the amount of time you have to travel, you can plan your destinations accordingly.  Do your research! Pick a few spots along a reasonable path that are close in distance yet far enough apart so you can make pit stops, enjoy lengthy highway cruises, and cover a lot of ground in your set amount of time. Use Google Maps to figure out the best travel times, the fastest routes, and how much tolls will cost along the way.  Once you figure out where you’re going, then you can determine where you’re staying. Let’s cover how to book the cheapest places to stay. Here are the websites and apps I used to scout out the least expensive hotels and room rentals that were also safe, legit, and clean. 

  • Airbnb: There are some super cool Airbnb spots with all of the necessary amenities in convenient locations. Our favorite rental was a cute little cottage house in Savannah, Georgia -- all thanks to Airbnb (use my link for $40 off your first stay)! Beware though, certain rentals can actually turn out to be pretty expensive with all of the host, cleaning, and service fees added in, so browse around to make sure you’re getting the best deal.

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  • Hotels.com: When we craved peace of mind and better security in unknown locations, we chose to stay in an actual hotel. We booked through this website and scored amazing room deals in Myrtle Beach and Washington DC for a much more affordable price than an Airbnb.

 

  • RetailMeNot: RetailMeNot was an amazing resource for hotel coupon and discount codes. Thanks to this website, I scored us an ocean view double queen bed suite with a balcony in Myrtle Beach for the exact same price as a single queen bed without a balcony.

  GENERAL BOOKING TIP: Tourist locations are more expensive than others for obvious reasons. Book a room in a town over or a 10-minute drive away from your main city of choice to knock up to ~$100 bucks off your rate.  For 15 nights in 6 states for 2 people, our lodging costs summed up to a grand total of $2,359, which amounted to $1,179 per person… which came out to roughly $78 per night per person. Granted, we stayed in some boujee locations that were totally unnecessary but we tried to be as cheap as possible whenever possible elsewhere to make up for it.  NOTE: If you’re only going to one or two spots and not spending more than two weeks on the road like us, then your price will obviously be a LOT cheaper.  Helpful Apps & Things To Use While On A Road Trip l hawk + pearl 

Helpful Apps & Things To Use While On The Road

 

  • GasBuddy: If you’re a thrifty bitch like me, you’d rather drive 10 minutes out of the way to save $0.10 on each gallon of gas. When you’re not in your home territory, and you’re traveling on highly trafficked highways, it helps to know where the good gas stations are. Rely on an app like GasBuddy to locate the cheapest nearby local gas stations.

 

  • Apple Maps: Apple Maps is the MVP GPS (sorry, Google Maps). If you have an iPhone, use the Maps app and you won’t be disappointed… but ALWAYS double check all of the directions on your route. I learned the hard way that it’s not 100% accurate 100% of the time and cost us an hour’s time by driving in the opposite direction and ultimately ending up at a dead-end ferry stop in Maryland. Oops.

 

  • E-ZPass: If you don’t have an E-ZPass, GET ONE! Even if it doesn’t come in time, your license plate will be readable and tolls will still go through to your account. Breezing through the E-ZPass lane saves so much driving time and money on tolls.

 

  • Toll Calculator: There are many sites available to see how much tolls will cost along your trip according to specific routes. I used TollGuru because it’s linked with Google Maps so you get both travel times and toll costs. We drove over 2,000 miles throughout six states and only spent $75 in tolls!

 

  • Yelp: When we were trying to figure out where to go and what to do, we depended heavily on Yelp reviews. ESPECIALLY when it came to where to eat, we wanted to choose restaurants that would be worth the money. Yelp came in handy for this, and we visited some really unique eateries as a result.

 

  • Pinterest: Pinterest was a huge resource for finding fun things to do in random places, like delicious restaurants, unconventional food trucks, little-known pit stop locations, and necessary tourist attractions.

 

  • Uber: When we planned on drinking and didn’t want to drive in Ocean City, MD, we Ubered to and from the bars. When we walked way too far and our feet were killing us in DC, we Ubered back to our room. When we didn’t want to add any more mileage onto the car or waste any gas or worry about parking, we Ubered. Uber rules. (Use my code morganm3963ue!)

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What To Pack (Suitcase)

 Wondering what you need to pack in your suitcase for your road trip? 

Here are just a few of the basics and necessary things to pack for a road trip:

  • Clothes
  • Pajamas
  • Underwear
  • Socks
  • Jewelry
  • Perfume
  • Makeup & remover
  • Shower essentials
  • Toothbrush
  • Toothpaste
  • Camera
  • Chargers
  • Sunscreen
  • Food & drink
  • Bathing suits
  • Sunglasses
  • Shoes
  • Jacket
  • $$$

 If you want a lengthier post outlining literally everything I packed, I’ll create it and link to it here once I do. Let me know!  

Little things you didn’t know you needed to pack for your road trip:

  • Paper towels
  • Toilet paper
  • Garbage bags
  • Ziploc bags
  • Small pocketbook/backpack
  • Steamer
  • Gallon water jugs
  • Teas and coffee
  • Cooking sprays, spices, and seasonings: We brought/bought groceries and cooked a lot of our meals to save money.
  • PBA cards: I got pulled over for speeding and thankfully had a relative’s card on me so we were let go free of any tickets. You never know when or if you might need it.

 

What we wish we had or packed more of but didn’t bring along:

  • Extra razor/blades: Mine broke on the second day of our trip when I knocked it off the bathtub onto the floor.
  • Extra camera battery
  • Tweezers
  • More snacks
  • More pajamas and sweats
  • More socks
  • More underwear
  • More casual clothes: Once we hit the halfway point of our trip in Washington DC, we had absolutely nothing casual left to wear. Having clean, comfy clothes to walk around in is so important. We were so focused on having cute outfits to go out in that we didn’t plan for the majority of our time NOT partying.

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How To Pack (The Car)

 We packed out Mel’s car according to a very specific system. We literally had it down to a science. Bellhops tried to load and unload the car for us on several occasions, and we always passed on the opportunity so we could just do it ourselves. Yeah, we’re stubborn and crazy. Suitcases, boxes, and carry on bags all went in the trunk (heavy suitcases were on the bottom, then carry on bags, then smaller boxes at the very top). Snack bags, pillows, blankets, and bags were in the back seat in case they needed them. Beach chairs fit perfectly between the back and front seats. We kept cameras, phones, pocketbooks, sweatshirts, and drinks (water bottles) in the front with us for easy accessibility. Depending on the amount of room you have in the car or truck you’re taking, you’ll have to play around to see which packing strategy works best for you.  General Road Trip Survival Tips l hawk + pearl 

General Road Trip Survival Tips

 

  • Take photos and videos: I brought along my Canon G7X to document the entire trip. Oh, and make sure your camera and phone are charged.

 

  • Live in the moment: Document your trip, but don’t forget to stop, put the phone away, be present, and live it up while it lasts.

 

  • Be open-minded: Try new things. Explore new places. Talk to strangers.

 

  • Don’t be so overly concerned with money: Money can be replaced. Time can’t. You’re on vacation. Don’t be afraid to spend a little bit of money if it means making amazing memories.

 

  • Use a cash back rewards credit card for all purchases: Save -- or make -- a little bit of money by using a cash back rewards card for your entire trip. Even if you get 5% back from $1,000 worth of spending, you’ll gain $50 back at the end of your statement.

 

  • Share your location(s) with loved ones: Before you leave, send a quick text to someone you trust back home with the addresses and whereabouts of where you’ll be staying. Also, share your license plate number and the phone number(s) of who you’re traveling with just in case of an emergency.

 

  • Pay attention to the GPS: Kind of a no-brainer, but just a friendly reminder.

 

  • Drive during the morning/day: Get a good night’s sleep, eat a nice breakfast, then head out. Don’t drive on an empty stomach or for way too long. Stay alert, awake, and aware when driving. If you feel yourself losing concentration, switch and play passenger.  

 

 I hope this guide helps you successfully prepare for, plan out, and execute your dream road trip! Remember to be grateful for the opportunity to travel, explore the world around you, and enjoy every moment while you’re on the road.  Also don’t forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel to watch my travel videos, like this vlog from Washington DC below: [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7DJIJb8Rxw&t=1s[/embed] Have you ever been on a road trip? Do you have any tips or tricks to share? Did I forget or miss anything? Let me know in the comments below! 

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Guide To Charleston & Myrtle Beach, South Carolina [VIDEO]

After staying in Savannah, GA for four days, Mel and I started our trek back up along the east coast. On our way to Myrtle Beach (our second destination of the trip), we decided to break up our 4-hour drive by making a pitstop in Charleston for some lunch and afternoon exploring.  Just like I did for Savannah (which you can read by clicking HERE), I figured I’d create a similar list of what to do, what to see, where to eat, and where to stay in Myrtle Beach and Charleston, South Carolina. So, without further ado, here it is: 

WATCH OUR ADVENTURES IN SOUTH CAROLINA BELOW:

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Charleston, South Carolina

 

Food & Drink

 Lunch at Butcher & Bee restaurant in Charleston, South CarolinaButcher & Bee: I ordered the brown rice bowl which was weird but really good. At the end of the meal, our server brought over our (split) checks which were stuck in between the pages of (two) books. Mel’s book title was “Wildflowers” and mine was “Nuns Having Fun” -- both perfectly relevant.Cute books at Butcher & Bee restaurant in Charleston, South Carolina 

Tourist Spots & Sights

 King Street: King Street is one of the most famous streets in the US. It’s known for its high-end shopping, gorgeous sidewalks, and revitalized architecture.Charleston City Market Shopping in Charleston, South CarolinaCharleston City Market: a long sheltered strip of mom-and-pop stands/kiosks full of jewelry, paintings, hats, trinkets, caricatures, and every other thing you can think of available to browse.

 
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Rainbow Row: THE CUTEST ROW OF PASTEL COLORED BUILDINGS THAT YOU NEED TO TAKE A PHOTO OF AND PUT ON YOUR INSTAGRAMPineapple Fountain in Charleston, South CarolinaPineapple Fountain: based in a waterfront park with the Savannah Bridge in the background, the actual pineapple fountain itself was cool but little kids were swimming in it which was kind of gross.United States Custom House building in Charleston, South CarolinaUnited States Custom House: beautifully architected and dating back almost 200 years ago, this building has been added to the list of the National Register of Historic Places.  

Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

 

WHERE TO STAY

We originally wanted to stay in an Airbnb but all of the locations were super far from the boardwalk, so we ended up staying at the Holiday Inn at the Pavilion… which is directly located on the boardwalk. Holiday Inn at the Pavilion in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina Our room was nice with comfy beds and its own balcony overlooking the boardwalk, water, and pier. The hotel itself was overrun with children, flooded with pool water on the bottom of the elevator floors, and had fruity alcoholic drinks at the bar, but it did the job.  For a three-night stay in a double queen-bed efficiency suite with a balcony and kitchen, the price came out to $652, which was well worth the money.  

WHAT TO DO, SEE EAT, AND DRINK

 

Food & Drink

 Drinking fishbowls at Moe Moonz in Myrtle Beach, South CarolinaMoe Moonz: we went to the first place on the boardwalk serving fish bowls, and that place happened to be Moe Moonz. Two fish bowls cost us $100 and they didn’t get us drunk, but the pretzels and the chips with salsa and cheese were delicious. Carolina Ale House: not entirely sure if this place is affiliated with Miller’s Ale House? I tend to shy away from corporate restaurants but I highly recommend the blackened salmon caesar salad. Pina coladas at Pier 41 in Myrtle Beach, South CarolinaPier 41: best pina coladas in the area with a cool bartender who I was able to bond with over MMA and BJJ because I called him out on his slight cauliflower ears.Fish tacos at Riptydz in Myrtle Beach, South CarolinaRiptydz: great, strong margaritas with delicious french fries, Mahi tacos, and a super cool rooftop area. On our first night, we sat on a bench in front of Riptydz and spilled our hearts to each other (yet again) while watching the beautiful blood moon light up the sky.Key lime margaritas at Good Time Charley's in Myrtle Beach, South CarolinaGood Time Charley's: I do not recommend the food but the key lime margaritas were soooo good. 

Shops & Stores

 Pick A Pearl: if you didn’t already know by the name of my website, I love pearls, so when we saw this shop at Broadway at the Beach we had to check it out. There was a huge tub full of oyster shells, each with a guaranteed special colored pearl inside. We each picked a shell and mine just so happened to be a lucky one with two peach colored shells (which represent good health -- woo!). I turned them into necklaces and kept one for myself and gave one to my mom.  

Tourist Spots & Sights

 Myrtle Beach Boardwalk: we didn’t walk the whole thing but the boardwalk was definitely fun to explore.Myrtle Beach SkyWheel lit up rainbow at night in South CarolinaMyrtle Beach SkyWheel: the SkyWheel was right next to our hotel so we were able to see it all lit up rainbow from outside our door. Broadway at the Beach: recommended to us by basically everyone, Broadway at the Beach is a huge outdoor shopping mall with restaurants, attractions, and shops. This is where we got our pearl necklaces, pina colada margaritas, and visited the aquarium.Jellyfish at Ripley's Aquarium of Myrtle Beach, South CarolinaRipley’s Aquarium of Myrtle Beach: way smaller than we expected, overcrowded, and overpriced at $30/ticket, but looking at sharks, sea turtles, jellyfish, and eels was a fun way to pass the time in the rain. 

OVERALL THOUGHTS

Charleston is such an adorable little town with so many historic sights to see. Strolling down King Street and E Bay Street was fun to see all of the beautiful architecture, palm trees, and Rainbow Row. We also loved the cobblestone roads and cute homes that lined the way before hitting the waterfront park area. Unfortunately, Myrtle Beach was our least favorite out of all of the places we stayed during our trip. We were so excited to leave Savannah and get to Myrtle so we could enjoy sunshine and beach weather, but we arrived to nothing but clouds, thunderstorms, and drinks that even didn’t get us drunk. Standing under the pier in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina On a more positive note, one of my favorite experiences from our entire trip happened during our stay in Myrtle: We moon-bathed in the ocean during the blood moon. After a two hour long heart-to-heart on the bench in front of RipTydz, we went back up to the room, changed into comfy clothes, left our phones to charge, and headed back down to the beach. Despite our deep fears of the open water, especially at nighttime, we found ourselves pulled into the ocean. We stood there in the rain in silence, closed our eyes, and soaked in the light of the blood moon as waves smashed our legs and the SkyWheel illuminated a rainbow sky behind us. I have no other words to describe this experience other than spiritual, magical, and refreshing. Blood Moon over the pier in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina As the locals had told us multiple times, Myrtle Beach is basically a heaven for lushes because “the only thing to do [there] is drink.” If you enjoy drinking all day and all night, definitely take the trip. Otherwise, Ocean City, MD and Atlantic City, NJ are way better options with better drinks and food and a lot more to do.  Thanks for reading! Have you ever visited Charleston or Myrtle Beach? Let me know your experiences there in the comments below or on my YouTube video (listed above). 

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Savannah, Georgia: Where To Stay And What To Do, See, Eat & Drink

Savannah, Georgia was the very first stop on my 16-day road trip with my best friend Mel. We left our homes in Long Island, NY at 8:30pm and drove straight down through the night and morning until we finally arrived in Savannah about 14 hours later.  

WATCH OUR ADVENTURES IN SAVANNAH BELOW:

[embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vwDyHehNSU[/embed] Based on all of the places we went, sights we saw, and things we did, I put together a little guide to Savannah, Georgia including where to stay, what to do, what to see, what to eat, and what to drink (as well as how we liked all of the above). 

WHERE TO STAY

We stayed for four nights and three days in a cute, quaint Airbnb carriage house located directly across the street from historic Forsyth Park. Our apartment was also extremely haunted but that’s beside the point. 

 
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 The wallpaper was quirky with cartoon flowers all over it, and the carpet was funky and colorful. It was modern in design, fully functional with pots and pans for cooking, and a book loaded with recommendations of things to do in the area (of which we took full advantage). The place was a short 10-minute walk from nearby restaurants, shops, and sights and about a 30-minute walk to River Street.  Altogether with cleaning and service fees, the Airbnb cost $477.67 for three nights. If you’re wondering where to stay in Savannah, an Airbnb is a good choice if you prefer privacy but you can definitely find a hotel in a centralized location for a comparable or lower price. 

WHAT TO DO, SEE, EAT, AND DRINK

 

Food & Drink

 Tequila's Town Savannah Georgia - Tuna, Veggie, Shrimp TacosTequila’s Town: try the shrimp, veggie, and tuna tacos, and get a pitcher of peach margaritas.Lizzy’s Tequila Bar & Grill: awesome peach and black raspberry margaritas.Lulu's Chocolate Bar Savannah Georgia - toasted almond Kahlua drink and dark chocolate covered strawberriesLulu’s Chocolate Bar: the toasted almond iced coffee with Kahlua was phenomenal and so were the dark chocolate covered strawberries.Jen’s and Friends: I didn’t order anything here because I was too drunk but Mel got the lavender lemon drop martini and said it was amazing.The River House River Street Savannah Georgia - blackened Mahi Mahi sandwich with friesThe River House: highly recommend the blackened Mahi sandwich and the Shrimp Po’ Boy.  

Shops & Stores

 Savannah Bee Company Savannah Georgia - raw honeycomb apple cheese sampleSavannah Bee Company: delicious honey in multiple flavors. After trying the honeycomb, cheese, and apple sample, Mel and I each bought a raw honeycomb to take home… AND we adopted bees for $1Nourish: homemade soaps, bath, and body products that smell good and are fun to try. Brighter Day Natural Foods: in an effort to save some money, we decided to go food shopping and cook a couple of meals. Brighter Day is the mom-and-pop equivalent of Whole Foods with healthy and yummy sandwiches, salads, and groceries.Savannah Candy Kitchen Savannah Georgia - world famous pralinesSavannah’s Candy Kitchen: this place is known for its famous pralines -- and oh my god, they did not disappoint. If you go to Savannah, you HAVE to go try a free praline sample. The Coffee Fox: we both ordered Georgia Peach tea and brewed it in our own super cool mugs while we sat in big, comfy chairs and people watched through the windows.Leopold's Ice Cream Savannah Georgia - pistachio and butter pecan ice creamLeopold’s Ice Cream: home of THE BEST ice cream I’ve ever had in my life. I’m lactose intolerant and this stuff didn’t even make me sick. I got pistachio and butter pecan ice cream. A+ 

Tourist Spots & Sights

 Historic River Street in Savannah GeorgiaRiver Street: historic River Street was full of fun shops and restaurants. It was really cool walking around and enjoying the riverfront views and touristy stores. We strolled down River Street with margaritas in hand because you can do that in Savannah (which is the best thing ever).The Waving Girl Statue: in the wise words of Mel, “Florence Martus AKA “The Waving Girl” was a hopeless romantic who greeted every ship that came through the Port of Savannah for 44 years because she was waiting for the sailor she fell in love with to come back to her. To no surprise, she died with a broken heart. Don’t worry Florence, we got drunk in front of your statue in your honor.”Old Town Trolley Tours: we stayed on the trolley for the entire duration of the tour and it was extremely worth the $33. We saw tons of sights and learned a lot about Savannah’s past and culture.Jones Street Savannah GeorgiaJones Street: check out Jones Street if you want to appreciate some gorgeous trees and architecture.

 
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Wormsloe Plantation: originally greeted by an arched gateway which leads to an oak tree lined alley, this historic plantation was one of the most fascinating parts of our stay in Savannah.American Prohibition Museum Speakeasy Savannah GeorgiaAmerican Prohibition Museum: I think this is the only prohibition museum in the United States, and it’s packed with facts, photos, videos, and information about such a wild part of our country’s history. Be sure to hit the internal speakeasy before you leave (just don’t get the Mary Pickford because that drink was gross).Forsyth Park: located right across from our Airbnb, this was the first spot we checked out. The trees, gardens, fountain, and statues were so nice.

 
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The Cathedral of St. John the Baptist: this cathedral is BREATHTAKING. I’m not religious but I was in complete shock at the insane architecture within and on the outside of this building.Squares: Chippewa, Oglethorpe, Johnson, Wright, Madison, Lafayette, etc. The famous bench from Forrest Gump is located in one of these squares, which we tried to find and couldn’t. We also had a heart-to-heart in one of them which you can watch at the very end of my vlog above.Georgia peach in Forsyth Park Savannah GeorgiaAnd of course, before heading to Charleston and Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, we finished our trip by enjoying two ripe Georgia peaches in front of the fountain in Forsyth Park. I highly recommend you eat a peach while in Savannah -- they 100% live up to their expectation. 

OVERALL THOUGHTS

Savannah, Georgia is a beautiful town full of interesting history, incredible architecture, gorgeous trees, and chirping cicadas. I visited knowing absolutely nothing about it and left in awe of all of the information I learned throughout our stay. It was super fun adventuring around and exploring the area without any expectations of what we were going to see and what we were going to do. The open alcohol rule was a major plus -- I don’t think I’ve ever publicly walked around with a drink in my hand before so that was fun. All I know is that I will definitely be back again someday and I’m looking forward to when that time comes. The place is definitely haunted considering it’s literally built upon burial grounds and overfilled cemeteries but I didn’t get any bad vibes from it (except in the bathroom of our Airbnb… some shit definitely went down in there). Oh, and I’m still craving those tacos from Tequila’s Town and the pralines from Savannah’s Candy Kitchen. View of colorful houses from Forsyth Park in Savannah, Georgia If you ever visit Savannah, I hope you get to experience all of the wonderful things we did during our stay. If you do, please let me know in the comments below! Also feel free to tell me what we forgot to do and what I’ll have to check out next time I go back.  Thanks for reading! Happy traveling. :) 

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4 Lessons Learned From My Recent Trip To Florida

Last week, I went down to Florida with my mom to visit my grandpa. We haven’t been down there in a while, so it was nice to not only get out of New York for a bit but to also spend quality time with him (which I’m sorry to say doesn’t happen often enough). I’ve been so caught up with working full-time again (one reason why I’ve been slacking on here) and doing a million other things that I haven’t had a chance to breathe or think.  During our four-day getaway, I finally had time to reflect -- and now I’m setting aside the time to write about my reflections and share them here with you.

 

Here are four lessons learned from my recent trip to Florida:

 

1) Family is irreplaceable.

4 Lessons Learned From My Recent Trip To Florida | hawk + pearlYou only get one family. Duh. However, it’s not that black-and-white. You are brought into this world and thrown into living with a group of people without choice. Sometimes you don’t get along with your family members, and I’ve found that’s fairly common. But sometimes you're lucky and become best friends with your siblings, cousins, and/or parents, and that's something special beyond comparison. Keep in contact with your loved ones and regularly tell them how much they mean to you. Hold them close, cherish the memories, make new ones, learn from them, and always kiss them hello and goodbye. You never know what tomorrow will bring. You only get one family.  

2) Love is the point of life.

4 Lessons Learned From My Recent Trip To Florida | hawk + pearlMy grandpa is 88 years old now (or 88 years young, rather -- he might have more energy at 88 than I do at 24). Any time and every time I see or speak to him, he never fails to remind me just how much I mean to him and how much I meant to my grandma (may she rest in peace) as well. If I had to, I couldn’t count how many times he’s told me the story of how they sold their place down in FL a few months after I was born just so they could watch me grow up... I couldn’t count how many times he’s described his six-decade-long fairy-tale relationship with my grandma and how lucky he is for striking jackpot twice in finding happiness again with his new girlfriend... I couldn’t count how many times he’s told me how much he loves me and my parents and my siblings... ...and every single time he does, I can’t help but smile nearly to the point of tears. “We’re something,” he said this week, as he spoke of the amount of love in our small family -- and we sure are. Love is the point of life. It truly is. There is absolutely nothing that compares and brings joy to a face like that which is brought about by love. Pure, happy, TRUE love.  PS: That's a photo of my grandparents from back in the day. Is that not the best thing in the entire world? 

3) Travel more often.

4 Lessons Learned From My Recent Trip To Florida | hawk + pearlLife is too short not to experience it to the fullest. At times, it tends to become a routine of work, work, work, go to the gym, squeeze in time to see your friends and family, shower, prepare tomorrow’s lunch, try to fall asleep before midnight, repeat, and stress in between -- but that’s not a life at all. It’s time to book more vacations and quick trips both local and far to see the places you’ve always wanted to see. It’s time to stop worrying about how much it’ll cost to take off and do it. You need to just DO IT. And last but not least... 

4) Stop stressing.

4 Lessons Learned From My Recent Trip To Florida | hawk + pearlSitting in a window seat of a plane, looking down on the thousands of tiny, sparkling city lights, I couldn’t help but think about how minuscule our seemingly monstrous problems truly are. We tend to get so caught up in our daily lives that it becomes practically impossible to see outside the box. We become consumed by our thoughts and fail to realize that our issues don’t matter NEARLY as much as we perceive them to. Stop stressing and start smelling the roses. There are infinity things to take for granted and an equal amount for which to be infinitely grateful.  If you read this far, thank you! This was more of a personal post/diary entry than anything else and I hope someone somewhere reads it and takes something away from it.  Remember to keep your loved ones close, love more and more often, travel far and wide, and stop worrying so much. Life is way too short to do otherwise.